Growing Up – Red Tent Living

Fruit Cocktail

By: redtentwomen November 8, 2018November 8, 2018

Day to Day, relationshipsAdverse Childhood Experiences, Becky Allender, Growing Up, Mono-Eater, Play, Stability17 Comments

As a child, a dark closet was the safest ground to play with my dolls. My mother was not a cruel woman, but she didn’t play, nor did she give room for anything other than work. She grew up in the aftermath of the Great Depression with a mother who gave two of her children…

Ragtag Courage

By: redtentwomen August 3, 2017August 2, 2017

Day to Day, Intentional LivingGrowing Up, Joanna Wilder, Neighborhood Ministries, Phoenix, Recovery from Abuse5 Comments

The word “instigate” means “to bring about, as by incitement or urging; to urge on to some drastic or inadvisable action.” Sounds sinister, doesn’t it?

Labor Pains.

By: redtentwomen October 5, 2016October 6, 2016

Intentional LivingChanging Seasons, College, courage, Empty Nesting, Firstborn to College, Grief, Growing Up, Letting Go, Susan Tucker14 Comments

“Life is a balance between holding on and letting go.” ~ Rumi

Grown Up Things

By: redtentwomen October 5, 2015October 4, 2015

Day to DayDeanna Sturgeon, doing hard things, facing conflict, Grandmother, Growing Up, Mothering boys1 Comment

My daughter-in-law called me the other day and said, “Please talk to Isabelle (my almost 5 year old granddaughter). She’s freaking out because she’s not a baby anymore.”

You Can Go Home

By: redtentwomen July 13, 2015August 1, 2015

Intentional LivingBecky Allender, Childhood, Growing Up, High School, Nostalgia, Reunion34 Comments

Thomas Wolfe wrote a novel entitled: You Can’t Go Home Again. Indeed, you can. It was our 45th high school reunion and, as usual, I had to encourage my husband to go.