I went to my first writing conference last summer. David James Duncan was the presenter. He is the author of The River Y and The Brothers K. Interwoven into the day were writing assignments that had to be completed in fifteen minutes. The second exercise was “one long sentence” and the experience of writing without periods allowed for a fun and furious writing time. Recently our flight to an ICAP (International Christian Alliance on Prostitution) conference was delayed and we asked our friend Abby to write for fifteen minutes without punctuation. We had an intriguing time reading our “quick” writings and learned new things about each other. I challenge you to try it and read it aloud to a friend. Here is my long sentence I wrote entitled: “How long do I have to wait?” It is a long cry of grief for what is and always has been since the beginning of mankind.
I wrote about my year of volunteering on the streets of Seattle to the prostituted teenagers. Each Friday I wondered how I would have the strength and the heart to stand on a street corner for five hours and hand out food, warmth and kindness. Nothing obviously changed in the course of the thirteen months that I stood on the corner. The pimps, the cops, the girls, the undercover agents became a swirl of sorrow and madness. I expected at least some change in the cycle of violence, but to my horror, our words, our care, our prayers seemed useless. I know that God was at work in mighty ways, I just did not visually witness it. Why did I continue to go each Friday night?
Frankly, I had made a year commitment and that is why I lasted for a month. I remained for the next 12 months because of the woman with whom I served.
An Advent Lament: “How long do I have to wait?”
A day of dread because the weather is wet and windy
and it will be fourteen hours before I get on the ferry
therefore, I have to pace my mind, body, heart and soul before
I begin a volunteering on the street venture when night falls on the city
and I hike a rigorous uphill walk on the dark icy city sidewalks of Seattle
listening for unsafe footsteps behind me
as worship music emboldens my frame
to fill up canteens of hot coffee, gather condoms and wipes
for our prostituted teenage girls
and prayers of pleading against harming angry pimps
and those Johns who keep driving in circles
around our make shift Lucy-like lemonade stand
of psychiatric help, food, care and hope
as I load our van wearing nine layers of wool and fleece
along with hand warmers in mittens and my boots
which will armor me with fortitude as we drive to our location
that can never be spoken or shared
with those who are unaware of what really happens
in the darkness while they sleep in safety inside walls
and are cocooned in clean sheets and duvets
while I watch girls with five inch heels and uncovered fannies
run in the dark across a four lane highway
and come stand by our heaters
as we bandage their blistered, bleeding heels with hands of care
and spray whipped cream into their hot chocolate
with eyes borrowed from Jesus
while foul worlds collide with handouts of home baked cookies
and heartache and love
as the new girls are not released from their pimp’s clutches
and watch from the side lines
along with “renegades”, both female and male,
who enrage the enslaved
and the parade of the night begins
with awareness that five long hours are ahead
which will be reeling with violence, shame, abuse
and a foster care system gone amuck
and generational family businesses swirl in front of my eyes
and in cars that keep circling and circling like vultures of prey
while angels of light intervene in multitude of ways
and we give out hand knitted scarves and hats to our cold ladies
and tears and curse words of our girls keep intruding our small heater,
our coffee thermoses, our cart of hats and mittens
and our hearts and frozen feet don’t warm when jumping
to keep circulation circling doesn’t work and
we take a five minute break and use the restroom of a Holiday Inn
and return to our stand of love and supplies
while police and undercover cops and pimps parade
and give us puzzled looks
and the same proud cars of the Johns keep circling like sharks
and wives are pimped for private school tuition
and seasoned prostitutes tell the eleven year old twins to go home
and we stand close to the chained link fence
with a garbage bag tired to it to keep things neat
and the circling cars keep circling
and our girls keep disappearing in the shark tank of violence
and the people in their beds sleep on
and we eventually leave the streets at 2:30 a.m.
wondering why oh why is life so cruel
and our girls are left to be circled and raped at our abandoned corner
without a friendly pathetic Lucy stand of care
and we pack up our wares and drive away
to import the information into old, outdated computers
matching street names to real names
and guessed ages disguised by too much violence and sorrow
and the city now has data and the youth are still out there
and I walk across the street to my daughter’s condo
and take the elevator ten flights up
and turn the key and tip toe into a warm, beautiful home
and shuffle with frozen feet to stand over my grandson’s crib
and cry out in hollow silence deep in my heart screaming
as tears hit a baby quilt made with love,
how long, oh Lord, until you come back … again?
Friday Night Lights, my blog from my year on the streets.
Becky Allender lives on Bainbridge Island with her loving, wild husband of 36 years. A mother and grandmother, she is quite fond of sunshine, yoga, Hawaiian quilting and creating 17th Century reproduction samplers. A community of praying women, loving Jesus, and the art of gratitude fill her life with goodness. She wonders what she got herself into with Red Tent Living!
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Powerful and heartbreaking…the unbroken sentence builds the incredible ache of it, so fitting for this time of waiting.
Thank you, Janet. Your words encourage me and can hardly wait until Jesus returns and a period will mean a whole new beginning.
Bless you for how much you hold caring for those women. How long, indeed. Bless you for grieving and persevering in the middle of violence and rape and despair when so many look away.
Each red tent post is a gift to my harried world and this one resonates deeply. Thank you for having the courage to write and share this.
Thank you, Sussy, for your encouraging words. I am grateful for Red Tent Living! All courage is truly from Jesus!
Thank you for an invitation to care, to lament for a fallen world that Jesus came to restore and will return to redeem forever. I can always tell it is your words, before I get to the end of the blog and see your beautiful face. Your heart is evident in your writing, no matter what subject you are addressing. You write, and your readers are there in that moment, feeling the bitter cold and overwhelming sense of hopelessness, unless He comes.
Oh, my! Your statement that my heart is evident in my writing is the highest compliment. Thank you! Come quickly, Lord Jesus!
Oh Becky. I love your provocative, trusting voice. The world is full of both grace and Cain-kills-Abel violence. It is maddening! And our normal. We are, indeed, a peculiar people, hoping as we do, waiting expectantly for good. Advent, indeed! Nevertheless, Come Lord Jesus, come again and again and again!
Thank you, Kelli, for your faithful encouragment. It calls forth goodness. Hugs to you across the many miles and thank you for what you do to stand against the violence of this world.
we hear your message loud and clear as a ray of light in the darkness! be the change that you want to see in the world!
Thank you for reading and hearing and speaking/writing!!! Thank you.
No words, but God bless you for being His hands and feet.
Thank you….and I trust you are every bit of His hands and feet too. Thank you for your faithfulness.
Sharing your sorrow is a deep invitation to see and feel and care. To not be content with the warmth of our beds. Thank you for continuing to give the call to arms. You are a Braveheart.
Timari, thank you for your encouragement and all that you do to say no to the darkness.
Thank you Becky! There is so much wrong, yet Jesus will make everything right. In that day! Kidding with our hosted Latvian boy, as we read the Tim Keller inspired children’s Bible, we remind him Jesus is saying, like Arnold Schwarzeneger “I’ll be back!” Not as a little baby next
time!
Yes…oh yes, Laura, thank you for the reminder loud and clear….Jesus will make everything right!”“I’ll be back!” Not as a little baby next
time!” AWESOME!!!
Love this Becky. Especially the repetition of the Johns circling as if they were vultures waiting to descend on their prey. May God be speedy!
Thank you, Beth! That circling WAS maddening! Thank you for all that you and Chris do in the name of Jesus.
“And the people in their beds sleep on”..could not be more true Becky.
You would know this, Anna!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you for your passion to help.
I’ll bet your kindness and generosity will never be forgotten by the women you touch. Your heart is forever sealed with their’s. You are one “gutsy” lady. I love you, my friend.
My first reply sounded unkind and without hope. I do think, since we did this in the name of Jesus, all of those interactions were offerings to His goodness and glory. Thank you, Mary Jane. I love you too, from one gutsy lady to another!
Thank you…I am not convinced…but thank you!
“with eyes borrowed from Jesus”…..yes Becky your eyes intertwined with His eyes to offer His story. And your words Becky ….words that took me there with you. Words that created pictures in my mind. They took my breathe and pierced my heart first with the gravity of the horror and trauma unfolding nightly in so many places. Then with gratitude that you stayed and offered, endured and prayed. You hope for this all to end, inviting us to be with you in this. To stay in the hard places and be eyes borrowed to others.
Thank you, Valerie, for “going there with me to what pierces the heart.” Thank you for all that you do to offer people hope in the very hard places….
Powerful and heartbreaking…and affirming. I feel my fear rise, yet I am reminded that “Perfect Love drives out fear”, and I cling to that. Thank you for sharing.
Yes, Christine, perfect love drives out fear. It did! We prayed valiantly before we went out on the streets each time. We only had to leave our corner twice because of violence.
Dear Becky, I wonder if the girls who are warmed by your heater, the cocoa, cookies, your hearts and kind faces wonder if they are experiencing angels in their midst. I pray that the Lord will open the eyes of their hearts to sense His presence and long for more. Blessings and protection for you sweet troupe.
Oh, yes, Sandy! What a perfect and brilliant prayer!!! I too pray that Jesus will open the eyes of their hearts to sense His Presence and long for more. Thank you!
Stunning. Heartbreaking. True. Raw. Holiness in the midst of pure evil. Provoking to bring more of the Kingdom to Earth!
Yes…..Rielylnn, Come quickly Lord Jesus!!!!
As I read your words tonight I could feel my heart grow heavy and the beat could not be ignored – tears filling my eyes and my throat feeling thick. A chill came over my body as I too felt like I was on the corner serving hot cocoa with whipping cream . ….offering mittens and hats..,offering love and warmth. I love your willingness to risk and be the body of Jesus in the flesh.
Thank you Elaine. It was a privilege to serve along side so many dear women who helped me be brave and see the beauty of being kind in the name of Jesus.